I walked into Mea Shearim on Purim night and did not recognize it.
The streets that on every other evening of the year are a study in black and white were flooded with color. Men who dress identically from hat to shoe appeared as princes in blue satin, guards draped in velvet and braid. Hats of every kind and color: emerald green, blazing orange, cowboy hats wide as a cartwheel. One was topped with the American flag; another trailed with glitter catching the lamplight as the crowd moved.
A boy of twelve wore a full bride’s gown and a wig of gold tinsel. His father, in a red tailcoat and sunglasses, carried him on his shoulders through the crowd, singing.
There was wine and whiskey everywhere. Not the careful sip of kiddush but open bottles passed hand to hand, men stumbling and laughing and holding each other up. Someone had dragged a sofa into the middle of the street. Three men sat on it, singing a niggun so beautiful it stopped me in my tracks. A fourth lay across their laps, asleep or drunk or both, and they sang over him as though he were a child.
A man I had never met took my face in both hands, looked at me with real intensity, and said, “God loves you. I love you. Do you know that?”
The night kept moving.
Men who do not touch in public embraced one another. Strangers spoke to strangers. A man I had never met took my face in both hands, looked at me with real intensity, and said, “God loves you. I love you. Do you know that?”
I did not doubt him.
***
I stood at the edge of the crowd for a long time, watching. What am I seeing?
These are men whose lives are structured by one of the most demanding systems of religious discipline in the modern world. The clothing is fixed. The rhythms of study and prayer are fixed. The community carries immense authority. The individual learns early that the point is not self-expression but fidelity.
And yet here, on this one night, the entire atmosphere had changed. Not rebellion. Joy. Something was emerging that the other 364 days had no space for.
The self.
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The Talmud says: nichnas yayin, yatza sod — when wine enters, the secret comes out. The tradition hears a warning. But perhaps the Talmud is telling us something profound — that inside every disciplined, conforming, correctly dressed human being, there is a truth waiting to be known: the particular, unrepeatable person that discipline and conformity keep contained.
A man in a clown suit danced alone in the circle of light thrown by a streetlamp, and his dancing was genuinely beautiful. I thought: he knows how to dance. He has always known how to dance. This is simply the one night when that knowledge has somewhere to go.
That was the thought I carried home.
***
Bereishit begins not with humanity in the abstract but with a human being.
One face. One breath. One name.
God did not create a category. He created a person — and then another, and another, each one a world that had never existed and will never exist again.
The deepest claim of creation is not that God made everything. It is that everything God made is particular.
The Mishnah makes the point as follows: “Therefore was man created singly in the world, to teach that whoever destroys a single life is considered as though he destroyed an entire world, and whoever preserves a single life is considered as though he preserved an entire world.”
The practical implication concerns the loss or preservation of a single life. But the underlying insight is no less significant: the human being was created single, and he remains single.
To suppress sin may be piety. To suppress the self is something else entirely.
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The Charedi world made an understandable choice. Faced with a culture that dissolves identity, it chose to fortify it. Faced with a society that worships individuality, it chose to strengthen the collective. A Protestant, privatized Judaism is simply inconceivable. Judaism lives through community; without it, it cannot endure.
The logic is clear; the instinct ancient.
Haddasah is Esther, as the Megillah first tells us; and it is precisely in that union of identities that the salvation of the Jews is found
But the cost appears on Purim night, in the relief of men who for a few hours are allowed to show something that the rest of the year must remain hidden.
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The megillah itself understands concealment. Esther’s name means hidden. Her identity remains concealed until the moment she reveals it.
That revelation—her name, her origin, her particular self—is what ultimately saves her people. Even after years of dwelling within her role as queen of Persia and Media, Esther did not relinquish her Jewish identity. Haddasah is Esther, as the Megillah first tells us; and it is precisely in that union of identities that the salvation of the Jews is found.
Purim is the holiday of masks. But the insight of a mask is not the disguise.
It is the moment it comes off.
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What I saw in Mea Shearim was not rebellion. It was revelation.
Men wept in the street. Men danced with strangers. A teenager stood on the roof of a parked car and sang a love song to God at the top of his lungs, wildly off-key, and the crowd roared its approval.
It was beautiful. It was chaotic. It was tender.
For a few hours, the structures that normally hold everything in place relaxed just enough for something older to appear.
The particular human being God created.
Religion builds discipline, law, community. These things matter. They protect something fragile and precious. But the Torah does not begin with a system. It begins with a person.
To arrive once more at Pesach, we must first take a deep breath of Purim
A singular human life.
That is what danced in the streets of Mea Shearim on Purim night.
Not a protest against tradition. Its deepest truth, briefly allowed to breathe.
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The Sages instruct us to juxtapose one redemption with another: the redemption of Purim with the redemption of Pesach. A redemption brought about through the actions of individual actors alongside a redemption in which there are no human actors at all — only the Holy One, blessed be He, in His glory.
Perhaps this is the very path of redemption. To arrive once more at Pesach, we must first take a deep breath of Purim.
